An Honest Reflection (a brutally honest reflection)
So lately I have felt the Universe stirring, swirling, a little off. It's made me ask , “Is this what you want?” It's made me reflect and wonder what it's set out to teach me. I had to ask myself some honest questions and here is what I have come up with. The universe is wanting me to grow and one of my takeaways is that I need to make amends with my stepmom for our rocky relationship. We were both in the wrong because we were both pining for my dad’s attention. It also wants me to step up in the role of bonus parent because there are some young adults in my life that still need parenting and I know how it feels to be in their shoes, but right now it feels unwelcome. The universe wants me to be aware of my role with Thomas and Carolyn and that as much as I want to indulge them because of single mom guilt, I too must let them fail and become independent of my safety net because they are ready and capable. **I read some great advice today: